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There are times when a couple cannot spank in the "traditional" sense in the privacy of their own home. Sometimes couples are out of town, or sometimes they have guests at the house, or sometimes they just simply don't have the time if they need to be somewhere soon. Silent spankings offer an alternative to the traditional way of spanking and, if done properly, can yield the results the couple is looking for.
There are two forms of silent spankings I'm comfortable with recommending. The first one can be done very quickly.
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The husband applies a very small amount of this cream (about the size of a drop of water) to the bare skin of his wife's buttocks (on each cheek) and rubs it in thoroughly, similar to how one would rub lotion into one's skin. The sting takes a minute or two to intensify, but the burning sensation will continue to intensify for the next 30 minutes or so. It feels exactly like a rather serious spanking. Rubbing the buttocks afterward can intensify the stinging, and water (i.e. a shower) can make it worse as well.
The buttocks will turn red in approximately 30-45 minutes after applying the Capsaicin Cream. The stinging can last for hours, depending on how much cream the husband applies. This is a very intense burning sensation, so it's recommended that no more than the amount specified above be used on each cheek. In most cases, this amount will yield the results the couple is looking for. It's very very intense.
The whole process of applying the cream takes 2-3 minutes. Read all information on the label, and make sure the wife is not allergic to any of the ingredients within the Capsaicin Cream before applying to the bare skin.
Bengay can also be used.
Silent Spanking Option #2: Heating Pad - This option takes some time since the pad has to heat up in order to be effective. That can take up to 10 minutes, depending on the heating pad. How the husband conducts this silent spanking is pretty straight forward - the wife sits down on this heating pad for a period of approximately 10-15 minutes. Any longer than 15 minutes as the buttocks may become numb, rendering it ineffective. For a slightly more intense effect, the husband can spank the buttocks approximately 5 times before the wife sits on the heating pad.
The heat from the pad will intensify the pain/stinging the longer the wife sits on it. It's most effective when the wife sits on the heating pad bare-bottomed, but it can also be effective if she sits on it with a thin layer of clothing over her buttocks (pajamas, sweat pants, mesh shorts, etc.). If she wears a thin layer of clothing, I would recommend increasing the time between 3-5 minutes.
Silent spankings can be effective for those times where you're in a hotel room, or traveling in the car, or when you have guests at your home, or when you're guests at someone else's home, or if you're just plain in a hurry...any situation where a traditional spanking just isn't possible. They can be effective as a one-time punishment, or they can be used as a temporary punishment until you're able to conduct a traditional spanking in privacy.
It's recommended that silent spankings only be used when there is no possible way a traditional spanking can be conducted. Traditional spankings should always be done where possible as they are safer, and provide much more emotional intimacy (i.e. comforting afterward). Silents spankings should NOT replace traditional spankings.
As always, feel free to ask any questions you may have in the comments.