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The essential and most frequently used Domestic Discipline punishments have been covered thus far, but there are a few other options for those times when corner time, bedroom time, removing privileges, or spanking just aren't realistic options. Situations where you're staying at a hotel or at a relatives house, for example. Most of these additional punishments are self-explanatory, but I'll go into a little more detail on them just to clarify things.
Hot Sauce in the Mouth - This punishment is generally for things like back-talking, cursing, mild disrespect, having a bad attitude, and things of that nature. It's exactly what it sounds like - the husband (or head of household) puts hot sauce in the mouth or on the tongue of his wife, which gives her a spicy burning sensation in her mouth. Not much more to it than that.
Hot sauce in the mouth generally serves as a reminder to remain respectful and have a constructive attitude about a given situation. Before administering this punishment, make sure the wife isn't allergic to any ingredients in the hot sauce. Also, there is no need to dump half of the bottle in her mouth. Just a few drops will do. Her rinsing her mouth is only going to make the spicy burn worse.
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The wife's natural reaction will be to spit it out, which is understandable. Even if she spits it out, or tries to rinse it out with water, the soap taste will linger for a couple of hours, or until she eats (which won't taste very good). Before administering this punishment, make sure the wife isn't allergic to any ingredients in the soap, and make SURE she understands NOT to swallow the soap. Swallowing soap could make her sick.
Also, the wife may be tempted to bite her husband's hand/fingers during this punishment. I recommend the husband warn his wife beforehand that if she bites his hand, she will get spanked. Biting the hand/fingers is a really really bad idea.
1) - I will not have a snappy attitude towards my husband in public. It's embarrassing and disrespectful.
2) - I will not have a snappy attitude towards my husband in public. It's embarrassing and disrespectful.
3) - I will not have a snappy attitude towards my husband in public. It's embarrassing and disrespectful.
And so on and so forth. The number of lines is determined by the head of the household. I recommend it be an odd number of times as it's best for memory. That's why area codes are 3 digits, zip codes are 5 digits, phone numbers are 7 digits, social security numbers are 9 digits, etc. I would recommend a minimum of 25 times, but that number would increase based on the severity of the offense.
The writing lines punishment is ideal when traveling, such as staying in a hotel or staying at a relatives house. It's obviously a quiet punishment, so if you don't want those within earshot knowing you practice Domestic Discipline, this punishment works well.
Apology Letter - This is where the husband (or head of household) has his wife hand write him an apology letter for her negative actions/behaviors. This punishment can be done as an independent punishment, but often times is done in conjunction with another. For instance, if you spank for a particular offense, an apology letter would be written after the spanking is over as added incentive for her to get the problem corrected.
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Scripture Study/Doctrine Study - I'm not forcing or pushing any religious belief on anyone. It makes no difference to me what religion you practice. I just want to be clear on that first before I even get into the punishment. I truly feel Domestic Discipline can be practiced by any couple.
Scripture study/doctrine study is where the husband has his wife read a set of scriptures/doctrine information, then write a report on what she read. I recommend the report be at least one page long, but the length of the report is ultimately determined by the husband. For Christians this punishment works well while staying at hotels, as every hotel room (in the United States) has a Bible (check those end table drawers!). Again, even if you're not Christian, this punishment can still be administered with any spiritual doctrine you practice.
Chores - Most couples have a set of household chores that each spouse is responsible for. This punishment steps outside of those every day responsibilities. Essentially the husband finds things for the wife to do around the house that she wouldn't normally do. For example, cleaning the baseboards of the walls isn't generally done as regularly as, say, vacuuming, but is difficult and otherwise unpleasant to do. That makes it effective as a punishment.
Husbands, use your better judgment with this punishment. What I mean by that is if your wife is pregnant, don't have her lift heavy objects or do any chore that would require excessive bending/leaning over. If your wife is sick/injured, don't make her do anything excessively physical. You can still find something for her to do as a punishment without risking further pain/injury. Just remember this isn't a dictatorship, this is simply a punishment. Be fair, and be conscious of your wife's capabilities.
Having to administer these punishments is rare, generally speaking. Most husbands (not ALL husbands) don't use these punishments very frequently. But, as I said before, they are options when other "regular" punishments can't be done. As always, feel free to ask any questions you may have in the comments.