tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4703520557723170766.comments2023-05-28T11:08:38.197-04:00Learning Domestic DisciplineLearning Domestic Disciplinehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06343127867693021939noreply@blogger.comBlogger3453125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4703520557723170766.post-19006238807104464192013-09-30T22:07:50.015-04:002013-09-30T22:07:50.015-04:00Good info, thanksGood info, thanksAwedbymywomanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05446407883220113880noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4703520557723170766.post-39927991019137938942013-08-27T00:47:16.580-04:002013-08-27T00:47:16.580-04:00Congratulations on the baby boy news! Jack and I a...Congratulations on the baby boy news! Jack and I are very happy for all three of you.<br />MeredithAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4703520557723170766.post-79979549684820878252013-08-08T13:09:39.352-04:002013-08-08T13:09:39.352-04:00Thanks, I really appreciate your comments. I think...Thanks, I really appreciate your comments. I think the take home message of what you said is to trust my instincts and do what feels right, and I think that is what I need to work on more than anything. Norahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17498690085632193082noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4703520557723170766.post-58596231563004010232013-07-30T22:30:15.607-04:002013-07-30T22:30:15.607-04:00@Nora - You've asked some very good questions....@Nora - You've asked some very good questions. I don't necessarily agree with seeking out a partner with overtly "dominant" characteristics, however I do think finding someone who displays great leadership and confidence is certainly a plus, particularly if you want DD to be a part of your relationship down the road. If a man is coming across as a bit bossy, or controlling, or rude, or condescending...I think those are red flags, particularly early on in the relationship (like the first date as you said, for instance).<br /><br />There may be a bit of a fine line there, and it may be kind of blurry and tough to tell the difference in the beginning, but I think you'll know leadership and confidence when you see it in a man. If any of their actions are off-putting or make you uncomfortable in some way, it's probably a strong indicator of whats to come later in the relationship. Your initial gut feeling is usually the right one.<br /><br />If other characteristics in a man turn you on (like a good listener, as you said) then yes, absolutely I would look for that quality. You deserve happiness, and if those qualities in a man make you happy, then I would certainly seek them out.<br /><br />I wouldn't necessarily jump to a negative conclusion if a man brings up or expresses interest in DD early on. He may be just like you -- interested in it, and trying to see if you are as well. I will say, however, that it would be in your best interest to proceed with caution in this situation, as there may very well be ulterior motives behind his interest. If he brings it up early on, I would dig deeper into why he wants to live this way, and do your very best to determine what his true intentions behind his interest are.<br /><br />That's my take on things. Keeping your guard up is a good thing, particularly when it comes to something like this. If something just feels...off...it probably is.<br /><br />I hope this helps you out. I wish you luck in finding the right person for you. :)<br /><br />-- ClintLearning Domestic Disciplinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06343127867693021939noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4703520557723170766.post-58055878962701838232013-07-28T22:50:06.846-04:002013-07-28T22:50:06.846-04:00Hello,
I have a question for either Clint or Chel...Hello,<br /><br />I have a question for either Clint or Chelsea (or both). You've sort of addressed this question previously, but it's something I'm still having trouble with. Clint has previously said that in terms of meeting a significant other, you think it's usually best to build a foundation first in a non-dd way and then introduce dd later on. On the other hand, I've gotten the advice from some other people that I should seek a man who demonstrates a dominant quality such as a tendency to take charge if I'm eventually interested in cultivated a dd relationship. I'm wondering if you agree with this advice? The problem is, when I've tried dating men who demonstrate this quality right away, I am usually turned off and a bit worried by what to me seems like a need to be in control. I don't want a man ordering me to do anything on a first date. That's disrespectful. Do you agree that I should seek these qualities of dominance early on, or should I be focusing on other characteristics like being a good listener which DOES turn me on (not that it's all about sex), and is central to dd, but might indicate a more submissive man. And just 1 other related question: I know this seems unfairly judgmental of me, but should I be concerned if a man brings up who expresses interest in dd very early on? Norahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17498690085632193082noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4703520557723170766.post-81138117798765383292013-07-16T23:39:23.784-04:002013-07-16T23:39:23.784-04:00@Deana - Wow, thank you very much for your extreme...@Deana - Wow, thank you very much for your extremely kind words. It's one of the nicest comments we've gotten. We appreciate it so much.<br /><br />Domestic discipline sparks strong opinions of people, which is expected, but those that disagree with the lifestyle could certainly express their opinions in a much more constructive way in most cases. That's just the nature of the beast, I suppose.<br /><br />Thank you, once again, for your very nice comment. It means a lot to us. We wish you and yours the very best in all that you do.<br /><br />-- Clint (& Chelsea)Learning Domestic Disciplinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06343127867693021939noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4703520557723170766.post-4942961581264761562013-07-16T23:33:15.294-04:002013-07-16T23:33:15.294-04:00@Meredith Malloy - Thank you! We had a wonderful ...@Meredith Malloy - Thank you! We had a wonderful vacation. It's so nice to get away for a few days. And yes, the beach was the perfect setting for it all! :)<br /><br />Wishing you and yours the very best.<br /><br />-- Clint (& Chelsea)Learning Domestic Disciplinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06343127867693021939noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4703520557723170766.post-57020032290501717142013-07-15T09:56:37.297-04:002013-07-15T09:56:37.297-04:00Welcome home! Hope your vacation was wonderful, bu...Welcome home! Hope your vacation was wonderful, but if you are at the beach, how can it not be? <br />MeredithAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4703520557723170766.post-16367532855571757412013-06-27T09:52:18.078-04:002013-06-27T09:52:18.078-04:00Clint and Chelsea... We need more people like the ...Clint and Chelsea... We need more people like the two of you and this world would be a happy place�� I love reading your blog/website. I don't understand the closemindedness and prejudice from others. Honestly It has never crossed my mind "omg a husband spanks his wife" I'm actually thinking "wow a husband and a wife who truly love,appreciate , want the best for,and will do anything for their marriage and family" thank you both and your blogging community for helping each other and so many others around the world. Thank you for sharing your "recipe for a good marriage" ��~DeanaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4703520557723170766.post-42854462097227449242013-06-25T08:47:42.563-04:002013-06-25T08:47:42.563-04:00@Kim B - Thank you! The Daily Mail article is one...@Kim B - Thank you! The Daily Mail article is one of the better written articles currently circulating in the media. At least both sides are presented within it.<br /><br />Thanks for sharing the link. All the best to you.<br /><br />@Anonymous (June 24th 8:55 AM)- It is our feeling that the reporter was interested in making everyone angry with her article, not just any one group of people. That's the United States media, unfortunately. It has become more about shares, clicks, views, etc. than research and honorable journalism. It happens.<br /><br />Thank you for your kind words and support as well. The others included in this article are wonderful people, and it's a shame they were not given the opportunity to show that.<br /><br />Thank you for sharing the link to the article. We appreciate you taking the time to comment. All the best to you and yours.<br /><br />@Anonymous (June 24th 8:02 PM) - You'll get no argument from us on that one. Thank you for sharing your thoughts.<br /><br />All the best to you and yours.<br /><br />-- Clint (& Chelsea)Learning Domestic Disciplinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06343127867693021939noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4703520557723170766.post-15824426594911417202013-06-24T23:02:42.798-04:002013-06-24T23:02:42.798-04:00not being crazy and more sex would do wonders for ...not being crazy and more sex would do wonders for your marriageAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4703520557723170766.post-49603354749641858282013-06-24T11:55:10.296-04:002013-06-24T11:55:10.296-04:00http://www.thedailybeast.com/articles/2013/06/19/s...http://www.thedailybeast.com/articles/2013/06/19/spanking-for-jesus-inside-the-unholy-world-of-christian-domestic-discipline.html <br /><br />You guy have GOT to sue this person!!! They are telling completely lies about you everyone on the blogs! It really got me angry and giving awesome people like you a bad rep. Especially when they started talking about Stormy's kids! Someone should do SOMETHING. I'm not anyone special, I just have really enjoyed all of the information and stories that are shared here on the blogs and to see someone completely lie about it and disrespect it and the DD lifestyle go me riled up. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4703520557723170766.post-22256226296582031842013-06-23T19:51:13.916-04:002013-06-23T19:51:13.916-04:00http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2346393/Th...http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2346393/The-Christian-movement-tells-husbands-SPANK-wives-correct-misbehavior.html CONGRATS ON THE ARTICLE!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13286425150143366225noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4703520557723170766.post-56371464409649587292013-06-14T08:00:07.152-04:002013-06-14T08:00:07.152-04:00I have found this to be very interesting for years...I have found this to be very interesting for years. I am married with two children. He is 36 and I am 32. He is very much the dominant one. I have never expressed my interest in DD to him. I know he would be interested. What are your thoughts?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4703520557723170766.post-16335981238816420882013-06-10T20:29:36.155-04:002013-06-10T20:29:36.155-04:00My boyfriend and I have been practicing for awhile...My boyfriend and I have been practicing for awhile and we are in desperate need of creative punishments! Any suggestions?? my email is ashyanne98@gmail.comAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4703520557723170766.post-7465355872312381062013-04-29T14:40:21.091-04:002013-04-29T14:40:21.091-04:00Everyone has his or her own opinion.... I think th...Everyone has his or her own opinion.... I think this is an awesome blog that focuses on rare private, intimate moments between and man and woman. Having said that, it's rare to find support with others within the lifestyle. I am in a DD relationship and we also spank our children. Love it or hate I say. Keep the blogs coming Clint and Chelsea and everyone else in this lifestyle!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01817051922403793313noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4703520557723170766.post-7787753740810038522013-04-29T11:37:16.323-04:002013-04-29T11:37:16.323-04:00@Anonymous Do you have a blog? I would love to co...@Anonymous Do you have a blog? I would love to come and read it! It sounds like you could teach us all a thing or two! Oh yeah, I forgot...you would have to *come out* and comment with an actual name so we would know where to find you. For some reason you like to be anonymous. If you feel so strongly about what you're saying, why not stand by your own words? I could respect that, even if I didn't agree. I have no respect for a coward hiding behind anonymous. At least Clint is not afraid to put himself out there by having this blog. He publishes unflattering comments when nobody would know if he just deleted them. He has his contact info out here for all to see. Heck, he even uses his real picture, not just an avatar! A coward he's not. I can respect THAT even if I don't agree with every single word he has ever said.<br /><br />I have come across several blogs that I personally don't agree with, even bloggers that I don't think I like, based on what they have said. You know what I do then? I leave! If you find Clint and his blog so offensive, why do you waste so much of your time reading it. Why do you put so much effort into trying to engage him with your rude, disrespectful comments? Seriously! Why don't you just move on! Teresanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4703520557723170766.post-9800525047509741382013-04-27T05:06:17.187-04:002013-04-27T05:06:17.187-04:00And, nobody "attacked" their children. ...And, nobody "attacked" their children. That is a flat out lie. She was upset that people assumed her husband spanks the children in a similar way and I simply responded that that assumption would not be that implausible. It isn't. As far as attacking you, yes, I think you are a wanna be in the world of spanking and that you can't take criticism and that you are a control freak. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4703520557723170766.post-58956802045422159832013-04-26T21:34:16.025-04:002013-04-26T21:34:16.025-04:00Really? You think this is new to anybody? All yo...Really? You think this is new to anybody? All you have to do is read any spanking story and this is acted out all the time.<br /><br />Also, you mentioned in a previous post that someone had left some comments here and on Red Booty Woman's blog. I did, and I'm not the person you are blaming it on. And I didn't criticize anybody for having a miscarriage. Why are you so intent on playing the victim? I simply pointed out that you need to be responsible with the whole spanking when pregnant scenarios because it seems many of you who practice and blog about DD have suffered miscarriages. Really, Clint, if you aren't intelligent enough to sort these things out, then maybe you aren't wise enough to be a HOH? Seriously.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4703520557723170766.post-55538276287628377212013-04-24T23:17:22.794-04:002013-04-24T23:17:22.794-04:00This helped us SO much.. I read it to Colin and it...This helped us SO much.. I read it to Colin and it seemed to really help. Thanks for sharing! :)Kenziehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16300931055285711554noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4703520557723170766.post-50270855794653773112013-04-24T19:12:52.751-04:002013-04-24T19:12:52.751-04:00We've used these types of spankings, although ...We've used these types of spankings, although not with the name. Although, the name makes perfect sense. :DJimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00323263203323794675noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4703520557723170766.post-73821776553274079792013-04-20T08:51:24.779-04:002013-04-20T08:51:24.779-04:00Being single, I am on here out of interest in this...Being single, I am on here out of interest in this lifestyle. I would certainly benefit from punishments from spanking to flogging and beyond. I have behaviours, like drink too much, not focus on tasks, late often...all these negative things could be changed if I had punishments that lasted with me to make me reflect. This is needed to be more than just a light spanking or would not be effective. This is what I believe anyway - and reading this I think the point is all are different...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4703520557723170766.post-50412642067819368842013-04-20T08:43:30.733-04:002013-04-20T08:43:30.733-04:00I am single but would like to meet someone who off...I am single but would like to meet someone who offered this lifestyle as I think discipline like this makes for better relationships and strenghtens society. The comforting after is an assurance from the head of house that love is central to the relationship and punishment was only to improve.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4703520557723170766.post-92209545051373563152013-04-16T14:07:26.991-04:002013-04-16T14:07:26.991-04:00This comment has been hidden from the blog.Kenziehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16300931055285711554noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4703520557723170766.post-13789079450141244292013-04-09T23:16:08.529-04:002013-04-09T23:16:08.529-04:00@Anonymous (March 26th and 27th, 2013) - It sounds...@Anonymous (March 26th and 27th, 2013) - It sounds like your mind is made up. Unfortunately I don't think there is anything I could say at this point that would be helpful to you, or that would make you happy. It appears it would be a waste of my time to answer your questions, so I'll simply say that your assumptions about us are incorrect (not that you believe me, apparently), and I'll just leave it at that.<br /><br />For whatever reasons you chose to read the blog and join the forums, I thank you for doing so and you're always welcome to come back at any time. Our door is always open, and we'd be happy to help in any way we can with your domestic discipline journey (if you every choose to go that route).<br /><br />I wish you and your family nothing but success and happiness in all that you choose to do.<br /><br />All the best to you and yours.<br /><br />-- ClintLearning Domestic Disciplinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06343127867693021939noreply@blogger.com